What Does ‘The ick’ Mean?

The ick is a sudden feeling of disgust or loss of interest in someone you liked, usually from a small thing they did.

Dating & friendships noun

Examples of ‘The ick’ in a sentence

Where does ‘The ick’ come from?

"Ick" is an old word for something disgusting. The "the ick" phrasing spread online in the 2020s; it is often discussed in relation to dating.

How to use it, and when not to

Use it for small funny turn-offs. Do not use it to bully someone about who they are.

For parents and teachers

Fine around parents and teachers. Safe. The topic is dating, but nothing is explicit.

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Frequently asked questions

What does The ick mean?

The ick is a sudden feeling of disgust or loss of interest in someone you liked, usually from a small thing they did.

Where does The ick come from?

"Ick" is an old word for something disgusting. The "the ick" phrasing spread online in the 2020s; it is often discussed in relation to dating.

Is The ick OK to say around parents or teachers?

Fine around parents and teachers. Safe. The topic is dating, but nothing is explicit.

How do you use The ick in a sentence?

He said "bruh" at the wedding and I got the ick. I got the ick when she chewed with her mouth open.

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Definition written by VibeDex. Slang changes quickly, so this is a snapshot. Last reviewed 2026-10-23.