What Does ‘Demure’ Mean?
Demure originally means modest and reserved, and the 2024 trend uses it jokingly for a very mindful, polite way of doing things.
Moods & reactions adjective
Examples of ‘Demure’ in a sentence
- “I arrived at the party on time, very demure, very mindful.”
- “That is not demure, that is a dance battle.”
Where does ‘Demure’ come from?
The trend took off in August 2024 after TikTok creator Jools Lebron's "very demure, very mindful" video, which went viral during Charli XCX's "brat summer"; Wikipedia has more detail.
How to use it, and when not to
Use it for joking about calm manners. Do not use it to police what others wear.
For parents and teachers
Fine around parents and teachers. Completely safe.
Related slang
Frequently asked questions
What does Demure mean?
Demure originally means modest and reserved, and the 2024 trend uses it jokingly for a very mindful, polite way of doing things.
Where does Demure come from?
The trend took off in August 2024 after TikTok creator Jools Lebron's "very demure, very mindful" video, which went viral during Charli XCX's "brat summer"; Wikipedia has more detail.
Is Demure OK to say around parents or teachers?
Fine around parents and teachers. Completely safe.
How do you use Demure in a sentence?
I arrived at the party on time, very demure, very mindful. That is not demure, that is a dance battle.
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Sources
Definition written by VibeDex. Slang changes quickly, so this is a snapshot. Last reviewed 2026-10-23.