Coquette Aesthetic: What It Is & How to Get the Look

Coquette is bows, lace and a playful, romantic wink.

Coquette is a romantic look built on bows, ribbons, lace and soft pastels, drawing on Victorian and 1950s-60s ideas. It spread on TikTok and reached the catwalk when bows turned up on dresses and skirts at major shows. It is dainty on purpose, and people of any gender can wear a bow.

Key traits: Romantic, Dainty, Playful.

Coquette colour palette

Blush#FBE4EA
Ribbon pink#F4B6C7
Cream lace#FFF8F0
Cherry#B64A5B
Lilac mist#D9D2E9

Key elements of Coquette

CategoryIdeas
FashionSatin bows in hair, Lace trims, Ballet flats and Mary Janes, Pearl-style jewellery
Music vibeDreamy pop, Baroque pop, Vintage ballads
Room decorRibbons on frames, Vintage perfume bottles, Lace curtains, Cherry and heart motifs
ActivitiesDiary writing, Gift wrapping, Tea parties, Handmade cards

How to do Coquette on a budget

Any body, any gender and any budget can do this. Take what you like and skip the rest.

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Coquette FAQ

Is coquette only for girls?

No. Bows and lace belong to anyone who likes them. Many creators mix them with suits, jeans and band tees.

Where does the name come from?

"Coquette" is French for a flirtatious person. The online style uses it for a gentle, playful romance, not a serious statement.

Source: Wikipedia: Coquette aesthetic